Shidduch Success: Datewell’s Guide for Effective Dating

We are becoming increasingly aware that many people are encountering challenges in the realm of shidduchim. The premise of this groundbreaking book is that many individuals are unwittingly hindered by internal barriers. Shidduch Success is based on the earnest belief that far more needs to be done to provide support to those in need. This book aims to provide much-needed support and foster understanding and awareness to enhance people's chances of success in their pursuit of marriage.Wonderful people are investing enormous time, effort, and money in pursuit of their goal of marriage, but unbeknown to them, they are being held back by internal obstacles. This book explores many aspects of people’s perceptions, approaches, or responses to dating that may hinder their success. Whether you are single or supporting someone who is, this book offers valuable insights that could help figure things out.The ideas in this book are the product of many years of research and practical work conducted by DateWell (www.datewell.org) to develop valuable and credible insights into the internal challenges that impede individuals during their dating journeys. The book does not propose major changes but offers greater clarity about the various ways some people experience dating and how they can navigate their way toward success.The book is enhanced by over 60 pertinent Torah thoughts and real-life anecdotes. It contains dozens of pull-out quotes and over 80 original pieces of artwork.Shidduch Success has four main sections:Fundamental Concepts (Chapters 2-4): This section covers the essential principles of shidduch dating, provides guidance on how to approach challenges that arise during dating, and introduces foundational psychological concepts.Selection and Decision Making (Chapters 5-9): In this section, the book explores the process of selecting a partner and making informed decisions. It delves into topics like defining your priorities, making wise choices, and gaining clarity when finalizing decisions.Understanding Dating Challenges (Chapters 10-15): The third section delves into the core reasons individuals may struggle with dating. It addresses issues such as difficulty forming emotional connections, consistent ambivalence toward dating partners, and concerns related to commitment.Practical Matters (Chapters 16-19): The final section shifts its focus to more practical aspects of dating. It covers topics such as dating skills and morals, ethical considerations, and mental health-related issues.This structured approach allows readers to explore various aspects of dating at their own pace, with each section providing valuable insights and guidance relevant to their specific needs and interests.Shidduch Success aims to empower individuals on their dating journey and equip them with the knowledge and insights needed to overcome internal obstacles and find their path to a successful shidduch. Read more